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| Selfishness |
| I know I shouldn't bring this up, but I need to air my feelings. My ex has money to buy a new car and large expensive items for himself, but he has children that he spends very little to nothing on. I always knew he was selfish, and I'm seeing this as someone who isn't interested in anyone except #1 and so are the children. Believe me when it suits him he has meals there but that is about all as he is too busy to do much of anything else except for what he wants to do. Has anyone else had this experience as the kids are chating about a few things to me? |
| By : Java : Female |
| Date/time : 24/01/10 02:33:21 |
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moonpiegirl |
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Does he pay child support? If not he should, also I would not say anything bad about him in front of the children no matter what they say about him...Yes, I have had that experience but I just knew, the reason we were not longer together was that! and just keep the ideal that what goes around comes around... |
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31/01/10 11:16:06 |
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Java |
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My children are grown and they bring him up occasionally. I say little or nothing about him in front of them. I have plenty to say about how he avoids not spending any money on his grand children. He looks bad and is trying to fix the problem with the last grand child as he doesn't get to see her. It is his own fault for thinking they are going to ask him instead of the other way around. He doesn't know how to fix the problem and is too cheap to buy clothes or other items needed. It is easier for him to complain and make excuses than to do anything. Several months have gone by and he's probably hoping a miracle is going to happen. I'm not on good terms with him and I don't want to be as I'm not fixing this problem for him as he had all the answers to everything when we were married so I'm letting him fix this one. I bet he won't try as it is easier for him not too get involved, however, I heard otherwise. |
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