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| Wife found someone else and they are living in our house |
| We been seperated for almost 5 months but we have interacted together like nothing was wrong I didn't take notice until I went to the house and this man was laying on my couch he said he was living here. what a shock, I left and the next day my wife came over giving all kinds of excuses and said that it was over betweeen them she stayed the night only to leave and go back to him, Im lost without her |
| By : Lew : Male |
| Date/time : 11/01/10 09:30:14 |
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Farmer Bear |
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You know, Lew, if you really still want a good relationship with her and feel lost without her, it doesn't hurt (well, yeah, it hurts emotionally) to work on fixing what went wrong. It sounds as if she still cares what you think. Have you tried going to counselling together? When couples separate, all sorts of weird energies come out but if you can both work out what you want from your relationship and give it an honest try you never know.... Lots of us who read and post on this site have felt "lost". It gets better but for sure not overnight. I wish you both all the best whatever you decide to do. |
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12/01/10 01:47:05 |
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Christine |
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It sounds like clear boundaries really need to be set. Well, they always need to be set in all relationships. If you remain separated, but she lives with you and it really disturbs you to come home to a man living in your house, set that boundary clearly that it is not ok. She can see him outside the household. That same boundary needs to be set if you want to get back together.
Regardless, please take very good care of yourself. If there was a chance for you to get back together that is a huge attractor - one who takes very good care of their body, mind, and spirit. What can you begin to do that nourishes you today and tomorrow and the next day? |
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20/01/10 13:30:10 |
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