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Singles Chat Live Talk Discussion
Harlan's Single Talkshop chat room "Talk It Out Therapy" is open 24/7. Use as needed. No appointment necessary, No waiting, No cost.
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| Newly seperated after 15 years. |
| Looking to chat with female who has recently separated with their spouse. After 15 years of a loving relationship, my spouse blind sided me with information that she felt she was gay. Our sex life at this point was extremely active so information came as a shock. We were best of friends for the most part of our relationship, up until the last year are so of being together.
I am 39 and looking to establish a friendship with a female who too was blind sided by their spouse. |
| By : Scott : Male |
| Date/time : 02/01/10 02:01:37 |
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Sue |
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Hi Scott, My husband of 22 years told me last January, New years day that he didn't love me and was leaving, this came as a complete shock as I too beleived we had a lvoing relationship. Over the course of 2009 he came back and left 4 times! each time saying that he needed to be on his own. We had a good sex life, and the last time he told me that he wanted to be on his own was Dec 4th, after being back together for 4 months. This time i took control and left him in the house, he can have all the memories this time! I live in the UK, and am happy to chat with you about the fears and the terrible roller coaster of emotions that you will almost certainly go through, sometimes you just need a little support. |
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02/01/10 11:00:29 |
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Kristy |
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Hi Scott, I was only married for 2.5 years when my husband just out of the blue told me that he no longer wanted to be married anymore. His reasoning is that he did not feel that we had a "spiritual compatibility" to stay together our whole lives. This still troubles me because I feel that he did not even give us a chance. And has been drawn to another woman even though he will not admit it. We had a great relationship, had fun together and got along well. I was the stupid one to fall for him and give him my heart and soul. Now I am left to pick up the pieces and trying not to spiral into depression.
We could lean on eachother for emotional support.
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26/01/10 13:34:46 |
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Tina |
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Hi Scott,
I've been married for 14 years (I'm 39 too) when my hudband announced to me 2 weeks before Christmas that he wants a divorce because he just had a one time affair with a girl he met on Facebook and she got pregnant. Of course he wants to do the "right thing" and marry her now instead!
My husband and I have been best friends for years!
I can't even begin to describe how painful this is, not to mention how unlikely this is to his character. I don't even know what the heck is going on in his mind!
Last March I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I did chemo for 6 months, then had surgery, and 8 weeks of radiation at the end. Throughout my ordeal I felt really close to him. He supported me in any way he could, or so I thought. He now says that he felt abandoned during my sickment and that I didn't give him enough attention. That's why he felt pushed to have the affair.
I would really appreciate the emotional support. I've had a pretty bad year in 2009 and I'm stil recovering. I thought I really deserverd a break in 2010, but it looks like it's not going to happen.
Maybe having someone to share our thoughts about this will help us get it out of our system and get on our feet and live a new and, why not, a better life. :-) |
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06/02/10 23:07:43 |
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My heart and prayers go out to everyone who posted a comment for Scott. (As well as you too - Scott). I have been thru divorce b4 and will be going thru it again (ending my second marriage). You will survive and you will thrive. Although, going thru divorce again will be difficult - I know that I will be better off without him. I just found about this site today and I plan on visiting it more often. Stay strong everyone and know that things will get better and you will roll into a new life. |
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10/02/10 21:57:59 |
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jo |
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i was married for 27 years and my husband has asked me for a divorce. he didn't physically cheat on me but mentally and thats just as bad. i.m new at chat rooms but i needed to vent with someone because i think my family and friends are sick of hearing about my soon to be ex. |
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20/06/10 09:00:42 |
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