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| I dont know what happened |
| So today i was doing alright. Until my ex called. First he gave the reason he was calling to ask about how our son was doing. He had returned him with me from one week with a rash, pneomonia and an ear infection. Somehow conversation was changed to our relationship. Would I change things if I could? Saying things that would give me hope of us getting back together, then turning around and saying something else. I feel like i am his puppet, like it's a game. We were on the phone for 40 some odd minutes, I hung up on him twice. Telling him we are not together unless it is about our son I dont need to know. He keeps telling me his work schedule, what he does, ect. It's so confusing it's been 4 months that we have been apart now all of the sudden he's like i care, i'll always care. I never did not love you, but he cheated on me and it's over. I keep telling myself it's over and he's trying to hurt me. I just dont know what to do. I told him face to face a few weeks ago after reading the articles our conversations need to be short to the point about our son, and it was long and drawn out and it felt like he re-opened the wounds. I guess I kind of allowed him too but how do i enforce it, is there anything i can say in court paperwork to have it where when he contacts me it's brief and too the point, it is getting ridicolous i am trying so hard and i know he was not good for me. How do i set the boundries to him, and still be respecting him as my child's father, and when i set the boundries what should i do to enforce it, to get my point across without be rude or mean? |
| By : Kila : Female |
| Date/time : 20/12/09 12:14:31 |
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ONE JEN TOO |
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Kila, Kila, Kila,
Get your point across without being mean or rude...why do you still care if you point comes across mean or rude????? Its over, you treat it as such...you dont sugar coat a thing!!! He wants to wander off on "other things"...stop responding!!! :) |
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22/12/09 22:38:29 |
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Java |
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It sounds like he is very lonely and needs someone to talk to. I guess he isn't having good luck out there is he? If you want it over I'd be straight forward with him and then hang up if the conversation gets too lengthy.
My ex would do this to me as he could be very nice on the phone and said such rediculous things at the same time. It was obvious he was playing a game and enjoyed it.
One night he told me the wrong info about where he was going to be like I really cared and then he called me up and gave me the right information. I never understood why he did this as we weren't getting back together. He did alot of weird things and thought it was ok to go in women's houses and talk to them etc. I doubt he treats his new woman any better as he doesn't know the first thing about a relationship. He's lucky he can get anyone to put up with his immature ways. |
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23/12/09 02:52:59 |
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