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| I just recently was told by my husband that he wants a divorce. I then discovered he was having an affair. I feel so sick and sad. I cannot sleep or eat. I do have a therapist and have taken time off of work. I just cannot get rid of that feeling of drowing. Finances will be a concern but I think right now I cannot stop hoping for this to end. I love him and want him back. What do I do? Sorry to ramble I have never used a chat room before. |
| By : kim kralicky : Female |
| Date/time : 05/12/09 01:03:28 |
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05/12/09 13:25:07 |
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05/12/09 14:09:22 |
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So often we hear or read about married people having affairs. Some single people do not even care if a person is married or not----they simply decide to date a married person anyway. It appears to me that newspapers, magazines and T.V. programs are overflowing with such alarming news. It is very disappointing for their spouses, children and family members who have been hurt, broke and left behind. Many people have been hurt by this sort of mischief. I wonder when there will be a law against homewreckers? I think some "homewreckers" should be sued for fraud ,damages---something! I do not think homewreckers should earn an income from their homewrecking stories. Sometimes single individuals know they are dating married people and they simply do it anyway. What is wrong with them? Do they simply enjoy tearing up other peoples' marriages? Apparently they were not taught any values while growing up. They have no self-respect. They have no fear of God or rules and they do not respect the sanctity of Holy Matrimony. Such individuals need to grow up. They need to stop being so self-absorbed.~~~~Thank goodness for the stable and decent singles in our society who have values and integrity. |
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06/12/09 00:34:44 |
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Married or single... an affair is an affair. For every single person sleeping with a married person, there is a married person saying yes. The buck stops with the person who has made a commitment, and then said yes to another.
It's important to not blame oneself when faced with a cheating partner. Is there something you could have done so that they would not have cheated? Maybe. Maybe not. But the fact of the matter is that there was a point where they had a decision to make: Say yes to an affair, or turn instead to your spouse and say "I'm having troubles and we need to talk and work them out."
Long story short - They dropped the ball - not you. They made the decision - not you.
The decision to cheat was theirs - and that speaks to their character, not yours.
Hang in there Kim. Yes - you DO eventually feel better. You will come to look back at this time in your life as something that made you stronger. The lessons you learn, and what you'll choose to do with them... are up to you. |
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06/12/09 11:43:52 |
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Excellent points above. I agree that married persons should also take time to reflect on their actions. They should think about the devastating consequences in advance which could occur. |
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06/12/09 20:50:42 |
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06/12/09 21:04:17 |
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Prince Chi Ekwujuru
Hello,
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19/12/09 13:31:26 |
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This site is for singles or soon to be singles to express feelings about emotional problems of seperation and divorce. |
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25/12/09 16:51:01 |
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On several occasions I've views the show Cheaters and believe me there are innocent people who are dating married adults who are unaware of him or her being married. Most decent adults don't want to date someone already attached as who wants an immature mate anyway as the favor will only get returned. I've been lucky as I've never dated anyone married and don't intend to. I remember though someone approaching me in my younger days, but he was very upfront about having children and flashing those pictures around of his kids. I thought wow how immature can you be, but wasn't interested in him anyway as it was clear he was very mixed up and had a drinking problem. I felt sorry for his wife and children as he did find women to date. It was rediculous how one woman talked about it and I thought to myself how immature of both of you as it led to no where. |
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