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| I am at the start of a divorce that was a long time coming. I stayed too long. The final straw came when he took a metal pipe and beat in windows...I am a domestic violence victim. The police got involved and there is a restraining order in place.
I am now alone, raising two children, trying to make it money wise and should be happy for the chance of a new start minus him. But I am uncertain of my future, I cry, I sit around, I feel stuck and numb.
I want to be happy and move forward..how?????????? |
| By : mia : Female |
| Date/time : 26/11/09 05:58:05 |
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My situation was not domestic violence but had alot of mental abuse from the man I was married to. I too am finding it hard to let go. We were together for 8 years and I am still crying and feeling lost and don't know exactly how to go on. I do however find that talking to God helps alot. Maybe that would help. I do however understand how hard it is. |
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29/11/09 13:47:34 |
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Its been 5 weeks since i told my husband i wanted a divorce, and that i was not happy with our marriage and i'm not in love with him anymore. I've been mentally abused for 17 yrs of our marriage. It was not always bad, but it was when i wanted to be independence. He's a good man, but he's not for me. I'm afraid to loose all i have and have no means to support my 3 sons. I know in my heart i don't want to be marry to him anymore, but somehow going thru this is too painful which makes me want to draw back. i don't know what to do? |
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29/11/09 22:12:55 |
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29/11/09 22:16:04 |
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Cathy: Do you have support from a domestic violence organization? They can be very helpful. I may have to change my whole living situation due to my move to divorce him but I was reminded today...I was given a gift of freedom the day I decided to take my life back that is a priceless gift. Do you want yourself back? Then go forward. |
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30/11/09 17:02:13 |
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Cathy,
Your comment is exactly what my wife has told me. She moved out 3 weeks ago and I'm completely torn. Tonight I tried taking a big step to let her go. I've been holding onto hope for so long but her heart left me a long time ago. I thought I was listening and I thought i was doing the right thing and then on August 6th she pulled the rug from under me. I am so hurt. I guess as a man I failed to understand her. I tried to listen to her but all my efforts meant nothing. I wish she would call or come over to see me but she is set on her decision and so happy to be off on her own. We have 3 small children 9, 8 both boys and a 5 year old daughter. How could she just leave us!!! I'm letting her go because the more I tell her how much I love her and how i wish she wasn't doing this to me/us, it just pushes her away even more. Like you, no matter what I did.....just wasn't good enough. She has told me that to my face. She has told me that I am a good man and a great dad but no matter what I do, date nights every other Friday, romantic settings, fun family activities, foot rubs, daily devotionals together, it just wasn't good enough. I feel so low right now, I just want to run away and never see her again but i can't because of the kids. I hate her so much for what she has done. Some people call it finding happiness and to a certain degree i agree, but I also think there's a lot of selfishness too. I think everything is fixable. It just takes two people who are willing to WANT to try. When one person doesn't want it. There nothing we can do. That's the hardest part to accept. How can a 12 year marriage just be dismissed so easily. She is so cold and dead set on her feelings towards me that there isn’t even one bit of doubt. I just don't understand. This is all very sad.
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06/12/09 01:25:08 |
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Prince Chi Ekwujuru |
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19/12/09 13:34:50 |
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Stephan,
My heart goes out to you. You cetainly sound as though you did everthing that a Christian husband can do. I only wish that my supposedly Christian husband did half the things that you did for your wife. Hopefully, she will discover that her husband and children are worth fighting for and if not I pray that in time a wonderfull woman would come into your life.
You deserve to be treated with love and respect. |
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